(Family Features) As people age, many lose loved ones, find their mobility diminished and see social circles shrink. All of this can contribute to feelings of loneliness. In fact, nearly 60% of adults age 60 and older are lonely at least sometimes, according to a federal study conducted by the University of Michigan.
Loneliness has become so acute the U.S. surgeon general declared it an epidemic in 2023, specifically citing seniors as a vulnerable group. Depression, anxiety and even cognitive decline are associated risks, but that’s just the start according to the National Institute on Aging. Loneliness can also heighten the risk of life-threatening conditions, like heart disease, obesity and high blood pressure.
For the seniors in your life, companionship can mean so much and providing it may be easier than you think.
Pets Alleviate Loneliness and Promote Physical Activity
Four-legged friends bring joy to many people’s lives. For older adults, they can be cherished daily companions that provide emotional support, daily routines and a renewed sense of purpose. If you believe a senior in your life could benefit from the companionship of a pet, start by researching animals that match their activity level.
For instance, low-energy dog breeds, like bulldogs or basset hounds, or more independent companions, like cats, may be ideal. Then visit a local animal shelter with your loved one to find the right match. Offer to help with paperwork, pre-adoption visits and home preparations to make the process easier.
Community Programs Can Provide Companionship and More
For homebound seniors with limited social connections, community-based organizations can play a vital role. For example, Meals on Wheels providers can be found in nearly all U.S. communities. They deliver nutritious meals and critical companionship.
“For many recipients, the trusted volunteer delivering meals and moments of connection is the only person they may see all week,” said Meals on Wheels America president and CEO Ellie Hollander. “A number of these providers deliver much-needed support for seniors’ pet companions, as well.”
Through a partnership with PetSmart Charities, participating providers offer free pet food, access to veterinary care and more to help keep pets healthy and in loving homes with older adults. To date, 15 million pet meals have been delivered through this collaboration.
Find Ways to Connect Personally
Many seniors enjoy having visitors – someone who can linger and chat or help with chores – but when an in-person visit isn’t possible, digital check-ins can mean so much. Telephone and video calls are other ways to connect from afar. If you schedule these, it gives the older adult in your life something to look forward to and can help ease their feelings of isolation and loneliness.
Learn more about loneliness in the lives of seniors by visiting mealsonwheelsamerica.org/issues/loneliness-and-isolation.
How One Dog Lights Up a Senior’s Life Every Day
More than 20 years ago, Sharon was diagnosed with macular degeneration, a devastating eye disorder that causes progressive vision loss and left her unable to drive or recognize faces of longtime friends. Today, she spends most of her days at home with her dachshund, Kali Mae.
“She’s 7 years old,” Sharon said. “I’ve had her since she was 6 weeks old. There’s nobody but me and her.”
Though Sharon worked hard to support herself for years, first as a school bus driver then at a large retailer, her declining vision eventually forced her into early retirement. Today, she lives on a fixed income and struggles to feed herself and her pup. At points, she has resorted to giving Kali Mae her own food.
“It’s so hard,” Sharon said. “You sometimes have to make some very tough choices.”
She’s not alone. Around 30% of Meals on Wheels clients with pets report sacrificing their own well-being to care for their animals – with some skimping on essentials like medical care to feed their pets.
Since connecting with her local Meals on Wheels provider, things have gotten easier for Sharon. She now receives nutritious meals for herself and regular deliveries of kibble for Kali Mae, who also gets veterinary care through the program.
“She loves me and I love her,” Sharon said. “We stick together.”
Photos courtesy of Paul Gore
Source: Meals on Wheels America